If you're a fine haired lady, you've seen it almost everywhere - something along the lines of 'If you have fine hair, you are more susceptible to breakage and split ends and should trim more regularly to get rid of them.'
Okay. Well, that's advise I've been following since 2010.
During the past few years, I noticed a recurring pattern with my hair that went a little like this:
- Hair suffers from breakage
- I do a search and destroy and get rid of my split ends
- Hair suffers from breakage
- I do a search and destroy and get rid of my split ends
- Hair suffers from breakage
etc
Because I had fine hair, I knew split ends were inevitable and was determined to get rid of them.
Can you see that split near the top leaf? Noo joke, my split ends. |
My little revolt against trimming more frequently happened quite by accident. I got a hair cut. Then I went away and promptly lost my hair shears.
During the (rather frustrating) period where I searched for the shears that didn't want to be found, I came to the realization that, even after the trimming, the cutting and the split end elimination, my hair was still breaking.
If split ends are inevitable on my fine hair, then even after trimming, they'll still be there and I'll be both suffering from breakage and getting rid of length.Wait...didn't that mean I was cutting and trimming my hair despite the seemingly inevitable damage I was going to have? Thus, I was chopping off progress... in the hope of progress????
I stopped looking for those scissors QUICKSHAPP!
We were done. Finished. Finito. End of. Nevermore.
Yep. I've quit cutting.
Well, okay, not forever, but I've drastically reduced it from every month to once every year. I'm gleefully anticipating my results (can't be worse than what I was doing before...)
I think you'll be very happy with trimming less. I have fine hair and I get 2 trims a year and I haven't had too many issues. ^_^
ReplyDeleteI definitely hope so! It feels kind of empowering to turn against the tide for my own good, as opposed to doing it for kicks ^.^
DeleteI hope it all works out. My hair isn't fine, but I try to wait until I'm forced to trim...and trust me, I can always tell. lol (Not trying to give up any hair for nothing! Imagine my disgust when I accidentally cut some of my hair when I removed my braids. Ack! So I covered it with more braids, well afro twists.) :-)
ReplyDeleteThank you! I'm coming to the conclusion that my hair is more precious than gold - mainly because it seems to be in rarer supply, haha! I do miss putting in extension plaits....but not the eight hours it always seemed to take to put them in! :D
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